• The Scent Spectrum: Clean, Sweaty, and Delightfully Depraved

    Facesitting is undeniably physical. It’s pressure, proximity, skin-on-skin contact. But one of its most powerful, and sometimes overlooked, dimensions is scent. The nose pressed deep into body, inhaling every nuance of your top’s aroma—it’s not just background detail. It’s core to the experience. Scent, after all, is memory. It’s emotion. It’s instinct. And in facesitting,

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  • Smother from Behind

    Reverse facesitting—also known as smothering from behind—is a thrilling variation on a classic power exchange position. For many, it’s the ultimate display of dominance: the top’s full backside descending over the bottom’s face, obscuring their vision, muffling every breath, and pinning them in sensory overload. There’s a reason this angle remains a favorite in the

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  • #FullWeightWednesday: The Reading Sit – Loving the Top Who Isn’t Fully Plugged In

    Facesitting doesn’t always need to be a high-energy, hands-on, dominant performance. Sometimes the most intoxicating sessions come when the top isn’t trying too hard—when they’re simply present, relaxed, and completely at ease in their own power. This week for #FullWeightWednesday, let’s talk about one of the quietest yet most potent variations of fullweight play: the

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  • How to Plan Your First KO Session: Safety, Science, and Satisfaction

    Some bottoms want to be pinned. Some want to be smothered. And some want to go out—to slip into that dark, floaty space where control dissolves and surrender is absolute. Facesitting knockout play, when done right, can be one of the most intense and transformative experiences in BDSM. But it’s not something to jump into

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  • Top Tips for Tops: How to Read a Bottom’s Body

    There’s a beautiful paradox in facesitting: the top is in control, but the bottom’s body is the map. If you’re a top—especially one who likes to go hard—it’s essential to develop the skill of reading your bottom without relying entirely on their voice. Because sometimes, their voice won’t be available. And that’s part of the

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