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Embracing the Brutal Mindset
It’s been a bit since my last post, but I wanted to check in with the current state of facesitting in my relationship. My top has decided “brutal” sessions should play a prominent role in our day-to-day routine. Sometimes she’s nice and we have a fun time. Other time, she wants to bring me to…
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Starting Out Gentle – More Advice for New Tops
If you’re new to facesitting or exploring topping in general, it’s easy to feel pressure to go “hard” or deliver a long, intense session right away. But here’s the truth: you don’t have to escalate to extreme intensity to be a “real” top. Starting gentle isn’t just okay—it can be deeply satisfying for both you…
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Unexpected Facesitting Outfits to Try — From Denim to Daydreams
Facesitting isn’t just about weight and position — it’s also about texture, temperature, and style. What your Top wears can completely change the experience. Some fabrics amplify power and pressure; others turn the encounter into something soft and sensual. Whether it’s a matter of comfort, mood, or aesthetic, experimenting with clothing can keep every session…
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My Top Has Lost Some Weight — How We Adjusted and Kept the Fun Going
I’ve always loved my Top’s body.Before, after, during — whatever shape she’s in — it’s her presence that gets me trembling. Her curves have always felt like home to me: the warmth, the weight, the softness pressing me into stillness. That hasn’t changed. Recently she’s lost a bit of weight. Her general shape is still…
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For Tops: How to Create Opportunities for Growth (Bye Bye Soft Limits)
One of the most rewarding aspects of being a top is guiding your bottom toward growth, exploration, and expanded boundaries — all while maintaining absolute respect for consent. Soft limits exist for a reason, but with care, communication, and attention, you can help your bottom explore them safely, deepening trust and connection. Understanding the Difference…
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