My Top Has Lost Some Weight — How We Adjusted and Kept the Fun Going

I’ve always loved my Top’s body.
Before, after, during — whatever shape she’s in — it’s her presence that gets me trembling. Her curves have always felt like home to me: the warmth, the weight, the softness pressing me into stillness. That hasn’t changed.

Recently she’s lost a bit of weight. Her general shape is still the same — that amazing ass full of curves still commands the room — but everything’s just a little smaller now. The difference is subtle until we’re in the middle of play. That’s when the new sensations show up.

With less padding, the contact between us feels more direct. When she settles on me, the pressure lands differently — sharper, more defined — and we’ve had to learn together what feels best for her. Some of our familiar positions have shifted slightly, and that’s actually been a fun process of discovery.

We’ve found new ways for her to sit that make the contact more comfortable and even more intimate. Small changes in how she distributes her weight or angles her hips have made a surprising difference. The closeness feels deeper now — less cushioned but somehow more connected. There’s something beautiful about how her body communicates through every subtle movement, and how I can feel her so clearly against me.

It’s been an exercise in attention and care. We talk more during play, laugh when something feels a little off, and celebrate the moments when everything aligns perfectly. Those are the times I feel completely overwhelmed — the familiar weight of her body grounding me, her confidence radiating through every inch of contact.

Her size has changed, but the experience hasn’t lost a thing. If anything, it’s richer now — a reminder that bodies evolve, but the chemistry between us keeps adapting and deepening. I still love being under her, however she arrives. Every new version of her body gives me another way to appreciate her, another way to surrender, another way to fall in love with the way she moves.

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Adjusting for Comfort: A Few Practical Notes

Every body carries and receives weight differently, and even small changes can alter how a position feels. Here are a few ideas that helped us find what works:

• Add soft supports. A folded towel, yoga block, or firm pillow under the Top’s knees or under the bottom’s chest can change the angle enough to relieve pressure points.
• Experiment with hip angles. A subtle forward or backward tilt can shift weight distribution and make the position easier to maintain.
• Mind the bones. With less natural padding, hard surfaces or prolonged pressure on hip or sit bones can cause discomfort — a padded surface can make a big difference.
• Take breaks for adjustment. Pausing doesn’t break the dynamic; it shows respect and care. Once comfort is found, control and intensity can resume seamlessly.
• Communicate — or don’t, intentionally. Some pairs keep an open dialogue about comfort, while others treat the bottom’s endurance as part of the play. Either approach can work if it’s negotiated clearly and grounded in trust.

Bodies change. Comfort changes. Dynamics evolve. The real skill lies in staying curious enough to keep finding what feels right — for her, for me, for the way we connect.