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Ready to Start Full-Weight Facesitting? #FullWeightWednesday

Hoping to create a theme of celebrating Full-weight Wednesday! You may not be there, nor ever be there, but we think it’s something worthy for every couple to aspire to. Starting full-weight facesitting safely requires communication, trust, and taking gradual steps to ensure both partners are comfortable and in control. Since full-weight facesitting involves putting…

Hoping to create a theme of celebrating Full-weight Wednesday! You may not be there, nor ever be there, but we think it’s something worthy for every couple to aspire to.

Starting full-weight facesitting safely requires communication, trust, and taking gradual steps to ensure both partners are comfortable and in control. Since full-weight facesitting involves putting most or all of your body weight on your partner’s face, it’s important to take safety precautions to avoid discomfort or injury. Here’s a step-by-step guide on how to transition into full-weight facesitting safely:

1. Open and Honest Communication

Before trying full-weight facesitting, discuss it thoroughly with your partner. Talk about:

  • Comfort levels: Ask if they are comfortable with the idea of you sitting with full weight and if they have any concerns.
  • Limits: Establish boundaries regarding how long you will sit and how intense the pressure can be.
  • Safety signals: Since your partner may not be able to speak easily, agree on a non-verbal signal, such as tapping on your leg or arm, to let you know if they need a break or want you to stop.

2. Choose the Right Position

Certain positions make it easier to control your weight and provide more comfort:

  • Reverse facesitting: Facing your partner’s feet gives you more control over your balance and makes it easier to shift your weight. Your butt will be the main visual for your bottom.
  • Use a soft surface: Start by doing this on a soft surface, like a bed, to cushion the experience for both of you.
  • Foot positioning: In some positions, such as squatting or kneeling, you can still keep your feet on the ground, which allows you to shift your weight quickly if needed.

3. Gradually Transition to Full Weight

Your partner is comfortable with partial weight, and now you can start applying more pressure:

  • Stay mindful of breathing: Full-weight facesitting can block airflow if you’re sitting on your partner’s mouth or nose. Give them the space to breathe by adjusting your position or taking breaks frequently.
  • Be ready to dismount, in stages: Your bottom will be experiencing an entirely new level of intensity and may need you to ease up a bit. Try rolling your hips a bit to give the bottom some relief and then dismount if this isn’t enough.

4. Pay Attention to Signals

While sitting fully, be alert to any non-verbal cues from your partner, such as tapping or shifting their body. If they show any sign of discomfort, lift some of your weight immediately and give them a break.

  • Stay in communication: Even though it may be harder for them to talk, ask if they’re okay every few moments. If they need a break, they should be able to signal clearly, either by tapping or using the pre-agreed safe signal.

5. Use a Queening Stool or Other Furniture

If you want to experiment with full-weight sitting but have concerns about breath control or comfort, a queening stool or smother box can be a great option. This type of furniture is designed to allow the person on the bottom to breathe while still experiencing the closeness and pressure of facesitting.

6. Take Breaks

Especially with full-weight facesitting, it’s important to take regular breaks, especially if your partner is new to the experience. After a minute or two of full weight, lift off to let them take a deep breath, check in, and resume if they’re comfortable.

7. Monitor Time and Intensity

  • Limit the session time: When starting full-weight facesitting, keep the sessions short to avoid overwhelming your partner. Be comfortable going back to regular facesitting.
  • Build endurance gradually: As you both become more comfortable, you can extend the length of time and increase the intensity gradually. Always prioritize safety and your partner’s comfort but also allow them opportunities to expand their limits.
  • Be careful with fabrics: Clothed facesitting can be done with harder fabrics like denim, but save that for future growth. Soft, forgiving fabrics are best at first and more intense experiences can be built up to with care.

8. Respect Boundaries

Even if you’ve done full-weight sitting before, always respect your partner’s limits. If they ask you to stop or take a break, respond immediately and offer aftercare or reassurance if needed.

9. Be Prepared for Aftercare

Aftercare is an essential part of any intense experience. Once you’re done with facesitting:

  • Check in with your partner: Ask them how they’re feeling physically and emotionally. They may need reassurance, cuddling, or a drink of water.
  • Provide support: Offer comfort and give them the space to relax and process the experience.

Final Tips

  • Use cushioning: Place pillows under your partner’s head for extra support and comfort while sitting.
  • Stay in control: As the top, you control the pressure and intensity, so be attentive to your partner’s body language and reactions.
  • Don’t rush: Take your time with full-weight facesitting, and don’t be afraid to go slow.

By taking a gradual approach, paying close attention to your partner’s feedback, and using clear communication, you can ensure that full-weight facesitting remains a safe, enjoyable, and consensual experience for both of you.

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  1. Jay J Avatar
    Jay J

    Hiii, First of all, I gotta say love your blog 😍😍😍

    I usually just straddle or squat on my boyfriend’s face but want to try full weight facesitting againn but I would like to know what are the most comfortable positions for the top?? Because I felt my vagina hurt when I first tried it and I got over it quickly. I think it was my boyfriend’s nose 🤣

    Or should I have dropped my weight on him more slowly? (I wasn’t fast though)

    Thank you!!! 😊

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    1. houde70f754d3d1 Avatar
      houde70f754d3d1

      As a bottom, full weight is my favorite so good on you for looking to try again! Comfort is really going to be different from one person to another, but I can give you some ideas on how to approach it. Noses can but tough to deal with but I’m sure there’s a spot where everything will feel just right.

      I would break it down between forward and reverse sitting – the easiest way to remember is reverse has you looking at the bottom’s feet. Which one of those puts his nose in a better place for you? Also are you sitting with clothing or nude? Nude is amazing for a number of reasons but clothed facesitting is still very very sexy. You can also try mitigate pressure on you by wearing heavier clothing like winter weight leggings or even jeans. The tradeoff is heavier clothing is much tougher on your boyfriend’s face, but I know if it was me I’d put up with almost anything to get more facesitting 🙂

      The one position my top has trouble with nude reverse. She does not enjoy my nose poking her right in the butthole even if I don’t mind. We can adjust that slightly by having her slide back a bit. That puts her butt on my forehead and my nose slides into her vagina which is much better for her.

      If we’re talking about forward sitting, you can do the same thing in moving one way or the other to find a comfortable spot. I quite enjoy forward sits where she moves back more towards sitting on my chin. This leaves my eyes free to peek up at her between her legs and my nose gets filled with her scent whenever she lets me breathe.

      Either way, you might try full weight first with clothing to see if that helps block some of the discomfort. Other suggestions would be to experiment more with regular facesitting (not full weight) to see what’s most comfortable before you add the weight to the equation. Bless you for being willing and excited to get back to full weight – it’s well worth the effort!

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  2. Jay J Avatar
    Jay J

    Hi! Thank you so much for your kind response; I appreciate you taking the time to read and respond to me 😊😊😊.

    Well, I put some of the things you taught me into practice, and I feel very grateful!

    I think initially the problem was that I was kind of nervous; I wasn’t feeling very confident. Probably I was going too fast, lol. It was one of the first times we ever did something like that (maybe I rushed because he was the one who insisted that I go full weight on him). And don’t get me wrong, I love reverse facesitting. But I felt like this time everything happened more naturally, and although I wasn’t completely full-weight sitting on his face most of the time (mostly I was squatting), I felt like I sort of slowly dropped my body weight on him with ease because I was feeling more relaxed. And every time his nose would sort of get in the way, I would slide across his face and kind of go with slow, gentle butt-drops, which helped me reach a position where his nose kind of just fit perfectly in my you-know-what, and surprisingly it wasn’t uncomfortable at all 👏👏👏. I did feel way better after the session ☺️☺️☺️.

    We always go for nude facesitting because it’s like a prelude to intercourse, so I have never tried it clothed. I have to say I would like to try it out, but I’m not sure if my boyfriend would be into it; he’s not too patient 🤣 he quickly takes my clothes off. How can I introduce it to him? I’m somewhat shy, and he also has a little bit of a hard time admitting he loves being submissive 🤭🤭.

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