If you’re finding your bottom’s nose uncomfortable during facesitting, it’s a common issue, especially when starting out. Here are a few tips to help alleviate discomfort and make the experience more enjoyable for both of you:
1. Adjust Your Position
- Try a Different Angle: Shifting slightly forward or backward can reduce pressure on their nose. A more forward position can place the focus on their chin or mouth, alleviating the discomfort of sitting directly on the nose.
- Kneeling Instead of Full Sitting: If you’re not ready for full weight, you can start by kneeling and lightly resting on your partner. This gives you more control over the pressure, allowing you to ease into the position comfortably.
2. Use a Cushion
- Layering with a Blanket or Pillow: If the nose feels uncomfortable, sitting on a folded blanket or small pillow can ease the pressure. It also helps create a softer barrier, making it more comfortable for both you and your partner.
3. Try Denim
- Stiffer Fabric, Less Discomfort on Top: Denim is naturally stiffer than other fabrics, which means that when you wear jeans, you’re less likely to feel your bottom’s nose pressing into you. The firm material creates a barrier that helps distribute pressure evenly, reducing discomfort for you while adding an extra challenge for your partner.
4. Consider the Duration
- Shorter Sessions: It may help to start with shorter facesitting sessions. Build up slowly as you and your partner become more comfortable with the position and pressure.
5. Communicate Openly
- Check in Regularly: Communication is key! Ask your partner how they’re feeling and adjust accordingly. They may offer insights into what might make it more comfortable for both of you.
By experimenting with these tips, you can find a balance that ensures the facesitting experience is more comfortable for both you and your bottom.
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